You
have the ring; you have set the date; now the task ahead
is finding a venue that will accommodate your vision.
There are several aspects that
you must take into consideration when deciding on your
venue. First, what does the venue say about you and
your beloved? Does it suit both your personalities?
Can it accommodate your guests? Does the décor
work with your theme, if you have one?
With so many locations to choose
from, how do you go about choosing one? To begin, you
both should visit each of your possible sites. Call
for an appointment with each location’s manager,
and take some time to outline your questions and concerns.
You also need to pay attention
to the size of the location to make sure it can accommodate
your entire guest list. If possible, you will want to
see the location while there is another wedding going
on; the space may look large when it is empty, but how
does it look when it’s filled with tables, chairs,
the band’s set-up, DJ equipment, and people?
It’s also important that
you address the following questions and issues when
searching for your wedding site:
• Parking/Transportation:
Is the space accessible to public transportation? What
is the parking situation? Is there a valet? Make sure
the location is safe for all your guests to get to and
from their cars.
• Event Planning:
Will the site provide you with an event coordinator
for your wedding day?
• Photography: Is there
a location on the grounds to take photographs? If it
is an indoor location, how is the lighting? How will
your photos look?
• Package Price:
What does the site-rental fee include? Catering, cake,
décor, etc.? Schedule a meeting with the chef
and pastry chef to discuss your menu. Make sure the
décor suits you, your personality, and your theme.
Find out if you can coordinate table settings, colors,
and accessories.
• Backup Plan:
If you have decided to have your wedding outdoors, does
the location you’re considering have a backup
site to accommodate you if there is a change of weather?
Will you need to rent a tent from an outside vendor,
or will your site take care of it?
• Payment:
What are the payment arrangements? What is required
once you decide to commit?
• Getting In:
How far in advance of the wedding will you have access
to the premises?
• Narrowing It
Down: If possible, take photos of each location
you visit, as well as obtain a promotional package for
each.
Sit down with the photos and
promotional materials and outline the pros and cons
of each location you both “love” before
signing any agreements. Comparing all the possibilities
will enable you to rule out unsuitable choices, narrow
down the list, and ultimately find the site that’s
right for you. Note that it may take several visits
to the “finalists” before you decide on
and book your site. And remember, venues are generally
booked nine months to one year in advance, so you don’t
want to put your search off for too long.
Happy Hunting!